This or Something Better

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Vivid, poetic, and intimate, This or Something Better reveals how true healing of deep wounds happens one exquisite layer at a time, and invites each of us to consider and embrace our own path toward wholeness and authenticity.

About “This or Something Better”

Like many artisans, my path to success was circuitous. How to see color, how to feel space and light, and how to translate it is a gift honed through hard work, trial and error. Much like writing about it!”

-Elisa Stancil Levine

Vivid, poetic, and intimate, This or Something Better reveals how true healing of deep wounds happens one exquisite layer at a time, and invites each of us to consider and embrace our own path toward wholeness and authenticity.

When the Sonoma Complex fire came to Elisa’s California doorstep in 2017, her world changed overnight. The devastating fire torched thousands of acres, but for Elisa, a world-class decorative artist, it was her reaction that night that cracked her wide open. A loving wife, mother, and grandmother, Elisa thought she had reckoned with her early childhood trauma. But when she fled the midnight firestorm without alerting a single neighbor, she had to ask herself –Who does that?

In This or Something Better Elisa revisits her past and the one force where she found true kinship: the wild river. Nature, her lifelong ally, provided her solace when she faced secret abuse beginning at two years old. Through teen pregnancy, her baby’s stillbirth, and a mystical near-death experience, nature shaped her character and later informed her wildly successful career. But was there an unintended consequence? What treasure awaited if Elisa could learn to trust human nature?

Unique hook: This memoir explores the influence of nature and trauma on the career of an artist and maker. From a childhood deep in a canyon, a cultural cross between Deliverance and American Graffiti, the author forges an award winning national career as a colorist and decorative artist, working in Manhattan, London, Paris and across the US.

Readers who enjoyed Educated by Tara Westover, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek by Annie Dillard and Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls will appreciate this memoir.

Press and accolades: Elisa‘s color and pattern design have been featured in every American design magazine, on the cover of Architectural Digest, and in Elle DécorHouse BeautifulVerandaTown and CountryVogueCalifornia HomeLuxe and in newsprint and social media. Elisa is a former board member of The Institute of Classical Architecture and Art and Creative Sonoma.

Author: Elisa Stancil Levine
Genre: Memoir
Pub Date: June 7, 2022
Publisher: She Writes Press
Paperback: $16.95
ISBN: 978-1647423612
eBook: $8.99
AISN: B09CYPNNP2
Distributor: Ingram Publisher Services

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Her prose dazzles…Driven by new experiences and personal revelations, the fascinating, creative memoir This or Something Better is a story about remaking a life.

Suzanne Kamata

FOREWORD Review by Suzanne Kamata (May/June 2022)

“In this beautifully written memoir, Elisa Stancil Levine takes the reader on a wild ride on her extraordinary life journey. Through it all she explores the combination of surrender and decisive action, trust and wariness, solitude and human connection, intuition and painstaking self-inquiry, grace and sheer hard labor that lie at the heart of the great mystery of human resilience. “

Noelle Oxenhandler

Author of The Wishing Year (Random House) and The Eros of Parenthood (St. Martin’s Press.)

This riveting story of the ‘making of a maker’ is more than a memoir, it is a testament to nature’s role in creativity. The author’s persistence and intuitive spirit come through in every chapter, inviting readers to embrace their own path toward wholeness and authenticity. . . . Moving, illuminating and inspiring.

Heidi Gerpheide

Publisher of California Homes Magazine 

“Elisa Stancil Levine’s memoir embarks on a rich journey to earlier times in the rural foothills of California—and sweeps up to date to first-hand accounts of wildfire and drought in today’s Sonoma County. Her stories of growing up in a world full of both wonder and danger are unique: told with frank detail, coming to conclusions about curiosities she encounters with both balance and generosity. She fills every page with beauty and learning… Her life is multi textured because she has made it so. This lovely book is well worth a read.”

Rebecca Lawton

Author of Swimming Grand Canyon and Other Poems (Finishing Line Press, 2021)

Upcoming Events

Redwood Writers Group Meeting
Saturday, December 16, 2023 | 1-3pm

Finley Community Center - Cypress Room
2060 W College Ave.
Santa Rosa, CA 95401

About the presentation:

The presentation will include plain talk about the rigors and rewards of writing memoir, including the surprising upwelling of vulnerability once the memoir is published.

Admission: $5 CWC members, $10 non-members

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Past Events

Saturday April 29th, 2023

Sonoma Valley Author's Festival

Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn
100 Boyes Blvd, Sonoma, CA 95476

Wednesday April 19th, 2023

Salon 2023

Fort Mason Center for Arts & Culture:
Gallery 308, Landmark Building A
San Francisco, CA

Sunday April 23rd, 2023

Spring Fling

Abbot's Passage Winery
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Novemeber 17th, 2022

The Legacy of Jack London’s Beauty Ranch

114 E Spain St, Sonoma, CA 95476 - in the Sonoma Mission Chapel

October 16th, 2022

Occidental Center for the Arts Literary Series

3850 Doris Murphy Way, Occidental, CA

June 23rd, 2022

Stancil Studios - San Francicso, CA

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June 16th, 2022

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June 9th, 2022

Reader's Books - Sonoma, CA

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